Delightful childbirth or how to receive from them pleasure

Patrimonial torments partly are accepted as something inevitable, as a bible damnation. Describing childbirth Кити, L.N.Tolstoy draws their filled with a pain. Meanwhile the pain completely not necessarily should accompany childbirth. As a rule, this consequence of unreasonable fear and the nervous spirit of the lying-in woman fed with uncertainty, absence of sincere support in alien conditions of the maternity hospital, literary associations not concerning it and ignorance of physiology of normal sorts. Absence of a pain in sorts — norm. The pain is a display of trouble of mother and a fruit. Besides, probably and delightful experience of sorts which is an optimum and an ideal of sorts.

As delightful childbirth, they — a reality is rare . Sometimes with positive emotion one of phases (periods) of sorts, sometimes — all entirely is worried . In such conditions to the child it is so good, as well as mothers, and he is born in happiness and pleasure.

The pain is a signal of discrepancy, disharmony of a condition of mother and the child (anatomic discrepancy, discrepancy of speed of various physiological processes and so forth). In sorts it is possible to allocate three critical periods — disclosing of a neck of a uterus, a head input in a small basin and прорезывание heads. All three critical periods can proceed with a pain, but also all three can be painted positive emotion.

Fights are sometimes worried as milk inflow — delightful pressure, desire to give birth.

Распирание vaginas a head causes delightful weakness in feet (removal of a spasm of muscles промежности) and periodically rolled delightful wave of attempts. The delightful wave begins with a bottom of a stomach and spreads on all body (pleasure of a birth), causing pressure of all muscles — an attempt. Pressure of muscles brings a stream of nutrients for the child.

The input in a vagina has an abundance of receptors, and at прорезывании mental pressure reaches heads of a limit. It is necessary that last period proceeded quickly and that the stream of impulses by means of гуморальных stimulus of mother has included consciousness at the child.

«… Childbirth, sufferings, ugly sufferings, this last minute … then feeding, these sleepless nights, these pains terrible» (from cracks of nipples) — thoughts Долли on sorts and motherhood. «Last minute» also should be delightful, instead of painful top of sorts. The consciousness of the child starts to join in this period.

The woman can and sometimes should groan and shout in sorts, but from flow of feelings, instead of from a pain (shout and groan reduce against a breath delay at attempts concentration of carbonic acid in blood, that warns overexcitation of the respiratory centre at the child).

After groans and shouts of mother from flow of feelings the child overflowed with a stream of sensations, pleasures will cry also. This shout differs from shout of the child at damage of a brain and reflects a condition at world opening.

The child should thank mother for painless childbirth and especially bow for delightful childbirth. At painful sorts mother in большей to degree should sympathise with the child as it together with it has transferred all burdens, being much more poorly it. Cares and love заживят wounds (figuratively), but they were …

Struggle for delightful childbirth can be conducted in several directions — a pharmacological labour pain relief, the metabolic grant and preliminary preparation for sorts, at last, mental orientation of the woman to delightful childbirth.

One of lines of feminity is trustfulness and suggestibility. These properties are given by the nature not for suffering of women, and for protection of children. It is easy to present (and even to visit a situation) when mother, being with the child, will strongly be frightened of something — can even become puzzled, but it is enough it see frightened eyes of the child as this desire comes into effect to convince I the child not to be frightened: only a few having calmed down itself, mother can calm the child.

This fine property of suggestibility is necessary for using in sorts, having begun with the first fights mental conversation with the child. In case of joyful sorts — to make comments on each sensation, to anticipate the following, to warn the child about it as then at performance or at cinema will warn about something interesting. In case of a pain it is necessary to imagine the scared children's eyes, and the sincere basis of motherhood will start to dull a pain, to persuade the child to suffer and console in a tender word.

The special condition of the child (fruit) — yet not included consciousness — creates illusion of absence of reaction to a pain. Nevertheless influences which cause a pain in mother, cause damages of the child — his head so is squeezed, that be the child in consciousness would lose consciousness from a pain. The most important thing the-child receives all complex гуморальных factors of a pain which tests mother.

Воль it is as though defrozen at the child after a birth, but not in the form of a pain (though also he tests it — to present the squeezed head and then  — «the removed hoop» — a pain, not sharp enough  , but remains), and as its consequences.

In sorts the woman not one, — having closed eyes and having compressed cams, together with it worries the important event its child. It will be not then — after sorts, and is already now, and it cannot be let out for a minute from own consciousness.

Each subsequent birthday the child mother should be all time with it  — together to bake pies, to fry a goose, to set the table and put on, even for a while to communicate a tape and to go only together: the child will accept this game-symbol. Mother remembers all about childbirth, and the child feels all …

Delightful childbirth is necessary first of all for the child as the stream нейропептидов, allocated at mother, optimises a condition of the child. Among these нейропептидов are available and эндорфины, extinguishing a pain for the child (and mothers — too). This pain at the child is caused by squeezing of a head and should be neutralised. The component of delightful sorts exists always. Even in the sorts described by L.N.Tolstym, fine shape Кити upon termination of sorts the painful impulse, a current is caused by that hidden and, unfortunately, weaker, than.

Such beautiful face cannot arise simply after disappearance of a pain or the termination of heavy work - in such situation there will be only a rest (to look at persons of sick people after introduction of anaesthetics enough). After the termination of a pain at Кити that condition which was throughout sorts was showed, but was shaded, "has become soiled" a pain. The person of mother after sorts should "see" the child, both of them are a mother and the child — should see enough against each other (a mutual admiring). The colostrum at delightful sorts is sated нейропептидами (in particular, эндорфинами) and possesses the increased anaesthetising force (removes not sharp, but a stupid pain). Apparently, the person of the given birth woman should see the husband. Probably, it should be embodied in a photo and be stored as a family jewelry. This photo of the person of mother after own birth should store and the child.

At all value of delightful sorts for human culture, their humanity interest while to them is shown only by physicians though delightful childbirth is necessary for improvement of the child. At such sorts the newborn will appear more fine a fruit for many pathological influences will be neutralised, there is an optimum stimulus of adaptation to an external world.

The author: R.P.Nartsissov, the doctor of medical sciences