How to be prepared for sorts

Three weeks prior to prospective day of sorts it is necessary to pack a bag with necessary for mum and the child things that at prompt or it is a little before begun sorts not to lose in vain time for packing of things.
Whether should be present at sorts the father of the child?
Recently the majority of doctors consider, that together gone through pregnancy — the present school of a matrimony for the parents, strengthening mutual understanding and feelings of the husband and the wife.
The empathy of the moment of a birth of the child connects spouses hardly probable no more, than any other event of a joint life. If the husband cannot be in immediate proximity from the wife, all the same its presence somewhere nearby gives to the woman of force, inspires hope and feeling of security. Each handshake and a gentle word really work wonders. But, certainly, it is impossible to force the husband to be present at sorts. Can happen, that the young father thinks, that cannot overcome unpleasant feelings which can arise during sorts. Can be and so, that the young woman tests some confusion of that her husband will see, how their child is born.
The school of young parents, especially young fathers, — and such schools widespread in Germany — will help to overcome recently fear and confusion, to eliminate feeling of disgust to the process of sorts. At these schools of the spouse learn, how childbirth proceeds. First of all pay attention of husbands to they can render what effective support to the wives. The husband at all is not a hindrance at sorts as considered in days of our grandmothers. Then it simply deleted from the house, and it is frequent at all for one month. Last months pregnancy of the woman and in the first months after sorts aunts, grandmothers, nurses and other people close to the house were engaged in an economy. Now conditions, of course, have absolutely changed, first of all that childbirth accepts not houses, and in clinic. The statement, that later sexual relations between spouses will be complicated that the husband saw the wife during sorts in such kind, concerns most likely only men with unstable nervous system. On the contrary, "joint" childbirth influences the majority of spouses exclusively positively, considerably strengthening matrimonial relations. Gynecologists constantly confirm, that observe only positive influence of presence of the husband at sorts. Thus complications or negative influence on the woman and on process of sorts are not noticed.
Psychiatrists also consider presence of the man at a birth of the child exclusively useful because this event clears up deep feelings in the person and strengthens readiness for judgement of the changed vital situation.